It’s all about the journey, and the friends we meet along the way
Often in life, we feel incomplete, unfulfilled, and scared. In these situations, we often look for the great, wise powerful wizard, someone or something that will help us feel a certain way, that would get us to the place we call home, a place which is like no other, where we will have feelings of safety, joy, passion…
The thing we often don’t realize, is that this so called wizard, is just another human being, just like the rest of us, hidden behind a mask, behind smoke and mirrors. often, it is a deception of our own creation. This wizard, is not necessarily a person we go to for wisdom. Sometimes, it’s just a goal we set for ourselves, imagining that once we’ve achieved it, we will get to our desired destination, to those feelings we so desperately seek.
What we should realize at these times, is that it’s the journey we go through, the people we meet, and the different parts of ourselves we discover, which are really the secret to unlocking the desired feelings. It is through understanding of ourselves, and empowerment of the different pieces of our unique puzzle, which can enable us to reach our true feeling of home.
What do I mean by different parts ourselves? Well, one of these parts could be our intuition, the scrawny scarecrow which will give us the insight and understanding we need to approach a difficult situation. It could also be that it’s our hearts that we need to get back in touch with. that part in each of us, which will help us find the secret to what really brings us joy. It’s the one which will allow us to connect better with others, or show ourselves the love we need in order to grow and be truly fulfilled.
In some situations we need the courage, the audacity, to go ahead and just grab the future we deserve and turning a deaf ear to the people and thoughts that are just holding us back. Some areas are darker, more carnal and physical, representing our senses, body or sexuality. Without giving these parts of ourselves the room and energy they need to grow, we might get stuck. On the long and winding yellow brick road, we might fall asleep in the poppy fields of stagnation and doubt, or even fall to illness and misery under the tyranny of sides of ourselves which initially mean well, in their attempt to control and protect us.
For me the war with the tyrannic witch is almost over, after I took the effort to understand that basically she’s just another piece of myself, doing her best to do me good. She did it through vehicles which are no longer relevant, but were initially there to serve and protect me. Today, with each step I empower another part of myself, I’ve learnt to serve myself with better vehicles, and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been.
Growing up, and even years later, I always felt broken, unrepairable, flawed. I felt I was different from others and couldn’t achieve the happiness I saw in other people. By shedding light on the different parts of my being, exploring and experimenting with each, I finally felt whole, as if all the pieces came together and fixed my being. After letting go of all the pain, guilt and fear, I decided I don’t wish anyone else who might feel as I have, to go on feeling this way.
If you would join me on the yellow brick road, I could help you understand yourself better and empower those parts of you, which needs extra love and care, see the different shapes which assemble your core, and help you with the tasks which will make you grow stronger and reach the next stage of your journey, it’s time to go home!